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In Today’s Edition:

🥰Well-Being & Self-Care: Why You Can't Just Relax: Understanding Your Nervous System
💖Longevity & Wellness: Can Creatine Help With Depression?
✨Daily Affirmation & Daily Prompt

Believe in you.
You’re worth believing in :)

You know the scenario. It's the weekend, or the vacation, or the first quiet evening you've had in weeks. There's nothing you need to do. And yet, your mind is racing. Your body won't settle. You're anxious about being anxious. You feel guilty for not enjoying this. You pick up your phone. You check the news. You make a list.

People often describe this as a character flaw: "I'm just bad at relaxing." But that's not what's happening.

When your nervous system has been running on high alert for a long time, it doesn't automatically downshift just because the external circumstances change. Threat-detection doesn't clock out when you do. The body keeps scanning, for danger, for the next thing to manage, for something to brace against. And in the absence of an actual threat, it sometimes invents the feeling of one.

This is hyperarousal: the state of being stuck in "on." Wired and tired, as so many people describe it. Your body is exhausted but your system won't let you rest. Not because you're doing something wrong. Because it's doing its job, just on a setting that no longer matches your actual situation.

A few things worth knowing about this state: It tends to worsen with doomscrolling, not because you're weak, but because you're feeding your threat-detection system exactly what it's been looking for. It can feel like anxiety, even if nothing specific is wrong. It often coexists with genuine exhaustion, which makes it especially confusing. And it's not something you think your way out of because the part of the brain running this show isn't your thinking mind.

This is why telling yourself to "just relax" doesn't work. The system needs something different than a directive. It needs to be gently shown that it's safe enough to land.

✅ Action Step: Right now, wherever you are: take one breath where the exhale is longer than the inhale. In for a count of four, out for a count of six or eight. Just one. Notice what, if anything, shifts. This isn't a cure, it's a signal. A small message to your system that it's allowed to begin coming down.

^{Love, Lola Graham}

Most people who have heard of creatine know it as a supplement that can help boost your physical performance. But a new review in Brain Medicine asked: could it also help with depression? The thinking is that your brain is a massive energy consumer, and creatine helps cells produce energy, so researchers wondered if it might support mood too.

The answer isn’t as impressive. Reviewing five trials with 238 people, two studies (both in women with major depression) found creatine added a real benefit on top of standard treatment. The other three found nothing. As the lead author put it, "the signal is interesting, but it is not a verdict."

So this isn't a definitive reason to start taking creatine for your mood. It's a reason to watch the research.

However, creatine is one of the most researched supplements and is extremely safe, with mild stomach upset being the main side effect, usually when someone doses it too high.

I take creatine regularly, and it has improved my exercise performance, making it easier to build strength and muscle, so it can be a useful supplement for well-being and longevity, but it is not necessary.

Note: People with bipolar disorder should be cautious, as two participants in the study developed mania.

✅ Action Step: If you already take creatine for training, keep going. If you're struggling with your mood, don't treat creatine as a fix; talk to your doctor about treatments with stronger evidence behind them.

^{By: Joshua Graham}

^{A supportive prompt to build health, nourishment, and long-term wellness.}

Eat or drink something today that genuinely helps you feel cared for.

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