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In Today’s Edition:

🥰Well-Being & Self-Care: The Need for Certainty (And Why It Fuels Anxiety)
💖Longevity & Wellness: Magic Step Number For Weight Management?
✨Daily Affirmation & Daily Prompt

Circumstances continually change in your life; that is part of life.
Be intentional in interacting with those circumstances in a way that helps lift you and others.
You have the power to improve things :) 

Our brains naturally want certainty. Predictability helps us feel safe. When we know what’s going to happen, we can prepare, plan, and relax a little more.

The problem is that life rarely offers complete certainty.

So when anxiety shows up, many of us start searching for guarantees: reassurance, perfect plans, overthinking, excessive preparation, replaying conversations, trying to predict every possible outcome.

At first, this can feel comforting. But over time, the constant search for certainty can actually strengthen anxiety because it teaches the brain that uncertainty itself is dangerous.

The goal isn’t to stop caring or planning altogether. It’s to slowly build the capacity to exist alongside uncertainty without feeling consumed or daunted by it.

That’s where flexibility, resilience, and self-trust begin to grow.

Ways to support yourself when uncertainty feels overwhelming:

•🧠 Notice certainty-seeking behaviours: reassurance, overchecking, overplanning
•🌱 Focus on what is known right now instead of every possible future outcome
•💛 Build self-trust: Remind yourself you can handle difficult moments if they arise
•⏳ Practice tolerating small uncertainties instead of eliminating all of them
•🌊 Remember that uncertainty is part of being human, not proof something is wrong

You do not need complete certainty to move forward.

Sometimes peace comes not from knowing everything, but from trusting your ability to navigate what comes next.

✅ Action step: Notice one place where you’re seeking perfect certainty and ask yourself: “What would it look like to loosen my grip here, just a little?”

^{Love, Lola Graham}

One of the hardest parts of losing weight is keeping it off. Around 80% of people who lose weight put some or all of it back on within three to five years. 

A meta-analysis of 18 randomized controlled trials involving nearly 4,000 adults found that increasing daily steps to around 8,500 per day was significantly linked to keeping weight off long term, even when the extra walking did not produce much additional weight loss during the dieting phase itself.

Participants who increased their steps to an average of 8,454 per day during the weight loss phase lost about 4% of their body weight. More importantly, those who maintained that activity level afterward kept off most of what they had lost over the long term. The control group, who did not meaningfully increase their steps, did not lose weight or maintain any losses.

8,500 might seem like a lot, but for most people, it is a 20 to 30-minute walk on top of their regular daily movement. It is a low to no-cost and accessible strategy for long-term weight management.

✅ Action Step: Check your average daily step count this week; most phones track this automatically. See where you are relative to 8,500 and identify one easy way to close the gap.

^{By: Joshua Graham | Source: Daily Steps During Nutritional Lifestyle Modification Programs for Obesity Management: A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health, 2026.}

^{A supportive prompt to build health, nourishment, and long-term wellness.}

Honour your limits as a form of self-respect, not failure.

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With love and care,

Lola & Joshua | The Living Well Team

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