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In Today’s Edition:

🥰Well-Being & Self-Care: Anger as Information, Not Failure
💖Longevity & Wellness: Build Your Plate A Different Way
✨Daily Affirmation & Daily Prompt

Stop trying to please everyone else at the expense of your happiness.
Filling your own cup isn’t selfish; it is necessary.
Take care of you; you deserve it.

Many people are taught to fear, suppress, or feel ashamed of anger.

But anger itself is not inherently bad.

Like all emotions, anger carries information. It can signal that something feels unfair, painful, threatening, violated, exhausting, or deeply important to us. It often points toward unmet needs, crossed boundaries, hurt, or values that matter.

The problem is not usually the existence of anger, it’s what happens when anger is ignored, suppressed, explodes harmfully, or gets turned inward.

When we judge ourselves simply for having anger, we can disconnect from understanding what the emotion may be trying to communicate. 

Learning to approach anger with curiosity instead of shame can help us respond more intentionally rather than react impulsively.

Ways to work with anger more supportively:

•🧠 Pause before reacting: intensity can make clarity harder to access
•💛 Ask: “What might this anger be trying to tell me?”
•🌱 Look underneath the anger: hurt, fear, grief, exhaustion, or boundaries may be present too
•🫶 Move the energy physically: walking, shaking, stretching, breathing
•🛑 Remember that emotions are not the same as actions: you can feel anger without causing harm

Anger does not make you a bad person. Sometimes anger is the mind and body’s way of saying: “Something here matters.”

✅ Action step: The next time anger arises, pause and ask yourself: “What value, need, boundary, or hurt might this emotion be pointing toward?”

^{Love, Lola Graham}

Most people build a meal starting with a protein or a carb like pasta or a meat. Then veggies end up as an afterthought. This is why only an estimated 10% of adults get enough veggies each day.

Instead, flip it on its head: start with vegetables. Before anything goes on your plate, fill at least half your plate with them.

50% of your plate being vegetables or fruit is exactly what Canada's Food Guide recommends, and the logic is simple: whatever you put down first tends to take up the most room. Lead with veggies, and they become the base of the meal instead of the garnish. Then your protein and your carbs fit into the space that's left.

This one shift can do a lot. You end up eating more fibre and getting in more micronutrients, plus the added volume helps you feel full, and for many the portions of heavier foods settle into a sensible range without any counting or restriction.

Start building your plate in a smarter order.

✅ Action Step: At your next meal, plate your vegetables first and aim to cover half. Then add your protein and carbs around them.

^{By: Joshua Graham}

^{A reflective journaling prompt to explore learning, self-awareness, and becoming.}

If fear wasn’t making the decision, what might you choose differently?

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Lola & Joshua | The Living Well Team

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