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Welcome to Living Well Daily, the newsletter serving up a daily dose of care designed to support you, cheer you on and remind you, always, just how wonderful you already are.

In Today’s Edition:

🥰Well-Being & Self-Care: Why Emotional Suppression Eventually Catches Up to Us
💖Longevity & Wellness: Does Daylight Protect Your Brain?
✨Daily Affirmation & Daily Prompt

Hope is a powerful tool.
Those who want control will try to destroy your hope for a better tomorrow.
You resist by holding onto hope and taking action to make that hope a reality.
A better tomorrow is possible 💖

Many of us learn, directly or indirectly, that certain emotions are inconvenient, unacceptable, unsafe, or too much.

So instead of expressing or processing them, we suppress them.

We distract ourselves. Stay busy. Numb out. Push through. Tell ourselves we’re fine. Avoid difficult conversations. Try not to cry. Try not to feel.

And in the short term, suppression can sometimes help us function or survive difficult situations.

But emotions that are constantly ignored don’t simply disappear.

Over time, emotional suppression can contribute to stress, tension, emotional numbness, irritability, exhaustion, disconnection, anxiety, burnout, or sudden emotional overwhelm when everything finally spills over at once.

The nervous system still carries what hasn’t been processed.

This doesn’t mean we need to express every feeling immediately or dramatically. But it does mean emotions generally need some form of acknowledgment, movement, support, or care eventually.

Ways to gently reduce emotional suppression:

•💛 Start by simply naming what you feel internally
•🧠 Notice the urge to immediately dismiss, minimize, or avoid emotions
•🌿 Create safe outlets: journaling, movement, therapy, art, trusted people
•🫶 Remember that emotions are signals, not personal failures
•⏳ Practice tolerating emotions in small doses instead of shutting them down completely

Feeling emotions can be uncomfortable sometimes, but constantly carrying unprocessed emotions can become exhausting too. You deserve space to feel like a full human being.

✅ Action step: Pause today and ask yourself honestly: “What emotion have I been trying not to feel lately?”

^{Love, Lola Graham}

Getting outside during the day is important for your brain health.

In a study of more than 87,000 adults, those exposed to brighter daytime light had a lower risk of developing dementia over the following 8 years. Those getting average daytime light above 1,000 lux, which is roughly the brightness of an overcast day outdoors, had a 16% lower risk of dementia.

They also found that getting less than 42 minutes of bright daytime light was a stronger predictor of dementia than six established risk factors.

The study does not prove causation, but we do know that daylight helps regulate your circadian rhythm, sleep, mood, and overall activity levels, all of which are tied to brain health.

✅ Action Step: Try to get outside for at least 45 or more minutes during the day, ideally during the brighter hours like going for a walk on your lunch break. 

^{By: Joshua Graham | Source: PMID 42358626}

^{A reflective journaling prompt to explore learning, self-awareness, and becoming.}

What’s one way you’ve become more yourself over the past year?

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With love and care,

Lola & Joshua | The Living Well Team

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