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In Today’s Edition:

🥰Well-Being & Self-Care: Living in “Go Mode” All the Time
💖Longevity & Wellness: A Downside of Late Night Eating
✨Daily Affirmation & Daily Prompt

This quote is lovely, and we hope it helps you today as it helps us…

“You're braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.”

For many people, constantly staying busy has become normal. We move from task to task, notification to notification, responsibility to responsibility, rarely giving ourselves a real moment to pause.

Over time, living in constant “go mode” can start to feel like our default setting.

At first, this pace can even feel productive or necessary. But when our nervous system spends too much time activated (always anticipating, responding, performing, planning, or pushing through) the body and mind eventually begin to feel the strain.

This can show up as exhaustion, irritability, difficulty relaxing, brain fog, emotional numbness, trouble sleeping, or feeling disconnected from yourself and your life.

The hard part is that when we’re used to being in motion, slowing down can feel uncomfortable. Stillness may feel unfamiliar, unproductive, or even unsafe.

But human beings were never meant to function at full speed all the time. We need moments of pause, recovery, and presence too.

Ways to gently step out of “go mode”:

•🌿 Build tiny pauses into your day: Even 30–60 seconds matters
•🧠 Notice when you’re rushing unnecessarily: Sometimes urgency becomes habitual
•📵 Reduce constant input: Your brain needs breaks from stimulation too
•💛 Practice being instead of only doing: Sit outside, stretch, breathe, notice
•⏳ Allow transitions: Give yourself a moment between tasks instead of immediately jumping ahead

You do not have to earn rest through complete exhaustion. Slowing down isn’t laziness, it’s part of being human.

✅ Action step: Today, intentionally take one short pause without multitasking through it.

^{Love, Lola Graham}

New research suggests that eating late at night on top of stress may be hurting your digestion.

Data from more than 11,000 participants and found that people with high chronic stress levels who also consumed more than 25% of their daily calories after 9pm had a 1.7 times higher risk of constipation or diarrhea compared to people with lower stress who did not eat late.

In a second dataset of over 4,000 people, that risk jumped to 2.5 times higher, and those individuals also showed reduced gut microbiome diversity, suggesting the combination of stress and late-night eating may disrupt the gut-brain axis in ways that go beyond either factor alone.

This is observational research presented at a conference, so it doesn’t prove cause and effect and has not yet been published in a peer-reviewed journal. But it adds to a growing body of evidence in chrononutrition, the field looking at how the timing of food intake interacts with the body's internal clock, that when you eat matters, not just what you eat.

The lead researcher put it well: "It's not just what you eat, but when you eat it. And when we're already under stress, that timing may deliver a double hit to gut health."

✅ Action Step: If you tend to eat heavily late at night, especially on stressful days, try shifting your last substantial meal earlier this week and notice how your digestion feels the next morning.

^{By: Joshua Graham}

^{A reflective journaling prompt to explore learning, self-awareness, and becoming.}

What’s something you’re learning to stop apologizing for?

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Lola & Joshua | The Living Well Team

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