
Welcome to Living Well Daily, the newsletter serving up tips to help you live a healthier, happier life.
In today’s edition:
💖Longevity & Wellness: Dance It Out!
😊Mental / Emotional Well-Being: Put Down Other People’s Worries
🧠 Inner Reps: Box Breathing & Positive Self Connection
☀️Self-Care & Connection
🌱Trauma Healing: Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn: Spotting Your Dominant Stress Responses (Day 4)
👇 And more good stuff!
Today’s Edition

You are spectacular, like a shooting star flying across the night sky in the middle of the aurora borealis.

Dance It Out!
Dance can be a highly effective way to improve physical function (especially in less active older adults), supporting healthy aging.
A comprehensive systematic review of 18 studies (Hwang et al. 2015) showed that dance significantly enhances muscular strength, endurance, balance, and flexibility, all crucial for maintaining mobility and independence as you age.
The review covered a variety of dance styles, including ballroom, contemporary, cultural, jazz, and pop, demonstrating that dance is adaptable and enjoyable for older adults, even those with existing health conditions.
The key is regular participation to see real improvements in physical function, such as a 45-minute session once a week for six weeks.
Dancing can also be a great opportunity for social interaction and cognitive engagement.
Dance can be an accessible, enjoyable, and powerful exercise for enhancing physical health to help you age better.
✅ Action Step: Dance more! Even if it is alone in your home.

Put Down Other People’s Worries
We pick up feelings and beliefs from the people around us, sometimes without realizing it. Soon, we’re weighed down by anxiety, fear, or expectations that aren’t even ours. Being empathetic and feeling with/for another person is a beautiful gift; however, we need to learn how to put down those worries instead of allowing the weight to become ours long term. Learning to pause and ask “Is that mine?” can help you set down what doesn’t belong to you.
Clues* to help you spot when it’s not yours:
🔄 You catch yourself repeating someone else’s worries or opinions.
⚡ Your body feels tense, unsettled, or you experience large mood swings after certain conversations.
🌊 You feel fine until you spend time with a certain person or group.
🧩 The thought doesn’t match your actual values or lived experience.
*Clues is an important word here because, of course, we will feel for people we love and the goal is not to avoid everything difficult, but, instead to recognize that letting go is important and so is having a say in how we look at the world.
✅ Action Step: When a thought or feeling starts to weigh you down, pause and ask: “Is that mine, or did I pick it up from somewhere else?” If it’s not yours, imagine handing it back, or letting it float away like a balloon. If it is yours, ask yourself “What can I do to offer myself support?”

Today’s Mental and Emotional Workout:
You deserve to feel calm, cared for, and connected, this is one way to gift that to yourself.

You are not too much. You never were. You are exactly right as you are.

📖Journal Prompt:
If you set down your expectations for what you need to do in life, what do you truly want for yourself?
🌟Spark of Joy:
Light a candle — like when a room instantly feels warmer and softer just from its glow.
🦋Weekly Connection & Kindness Challenge:
🌺Bring Flowers to Someone
Handpicked wildflowers, store-bought, send an emoji, or homegrown. A little something to say I’m thinking of you. Not a flower person? Try a nice rock or a pretty leaf. As August is coming to an end, let’s connect with nature to share the love.

Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn: Spotting Your Dominant Stress Responses
These four responses are your nervous system’s ways of protecting you when it senses threat.
Day 4: Why Awareness Matters
Knowing your patterns helps you choose a response instead of running on autopilot.
👀Awareness is the first step toward choice and to building a relationship with yourself.
🛟You can learn skills that work with your pattern to bring you back to safety.
🥰This can help you desensitize your response over time and/or shorten the intensity and length of the response, allowing more choice in how you move forward.
Darling, don’t give up on yourself, you’re so worth it. Sending love 💕


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Lola & Joshua | The Living Well Team
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