Welcome to Living Well Daily, the newsletter serving up tips to help you live a joyful, healthier life.

In today’s edition:

  • 😊Mental Emotional Well-Being: Myth Buster: “Boundaries Push People Away”

  • 💖Longevity & Wellness: An Anchor for Better Sleep 🌙🧠

  • 🌱Healing & Self-Care: Restoring from Emotional Exhaustion (Day 2/5)

  • ☀️Journal & Joy Prompts

  • 👇 And more good stuff, like lots of love from Lola & Joshua, the LWD creators xo

Today’s Edition

Pause. Breathe deeply. Let yourself soak in the beauty of this moment. This moment is beautiful because you are here experiencing it. That is enough for any moment to be special. 

Myth Buster: “Boundaries Push People Away” (Why They Build Closeness)

Healthy boundaries aren’t walls; they’re clarity. They help relationships grow in trust, safety, and predictability. When people know what you need and what you can offer, connection becomes steadier, not shakier. This isn’t meant to discount that communicating healthy boundaries can occasionally be an uncomfortable or emotional conversation (depending on the situation), but that discomfort doesn’t make the boundary bad, and ultimately, if someone is unwilling to hear or respect a healthy boundary, it may be a sign the relationship needs work, repair, or a change.

Boundaries protect relationships from resentment, burnout, and confusion. They’re bridges that make connections sustainable.

🌟 How boundaries strengthen connection

  • 💬 They prevent silent expectations from building tension.

  • 🤝 They make space for honest conversations.

  • ❤️ They help you show up with authenticity instead of obligation.

  • 🌱 They allow relationships to grow sustainably.

Action Step: Set one small boundary today, even a gentle “I’ll respond when I have more capacity.”

An Anchor for Better Sleep 🌙🧠

A powerful way to support your health and longevity is to get consistent and quality sleep.

When you go to bed and wake up around the same time each day, your body’s internal clock (your circadian rhythm) operates smoothly. This improves the quality of your deep and REM sleep, the stages responsible for memory, emotional regulation, learning, immune function, and metabolic health.

A good sleep routine can help train your nervous system and brain to wind down predictably, reducing nighttime stress, lowering cortisol, and helping you fall asleep faster. It doesn’t need to be some complex 10-step routine; even small, short routines can help. For me, it is reading in bed.

Action step: Choose a wind-down time, unplug, and do at least one calming ritual to help your brain shift into rest mode.

Restoring from Emotional Exhaustion

Emotional exhaustion happens when your heart, nervous system, and mind have been carrying too much for too long. This week is about recognizing signs of depletion and gently rebuilding emotional energy with care, rest, and boundaries.

Day 2: Listening to Your Emotional Energy Levels

Your emotional energy is like a battery and exhaustion means it’s running closer to empty. Today is about noticing where your energy drains and where it replenishes.

🔋 Ask: “What drains me most right now?”
💧 Notice what small things feel replenishing (warmth, quiet, connection).
🌿 Pay attention to your limits without judgment.
• 🕊️ Your feelings are signals, not flaws.

Darling, don’t give up on yourself, you’re so worth it. Sending love 💕

📖Journal Prompt:
Building a Caring Relationship with Yourself

If your heart were a room, what would it look like today? Messy? Cozy? Under renovation? Let imagery speak.

🌟Spark of Joy:
Let Little Things Move You

Let something be easy… it doesn’t always have to be earned.

Thank you for being here!

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