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In Today’s Edition:

🥰Well-Being & Self-Care: Becoming More Gentle With Yourself
💖Longevity & Wellness: This Fruit Revelation REALLY Upset Me
✨Daily Affirmation & Daily Prompt

Take a deep breath into your belly and long, slow exhale out.
If at any time today, things feel too much pause and take a deep breath and see if that helps even just a little bit.
Sending you a hug!

Many of us learned to motivate ourselves through pressure. Push harder. Be tougher. Stop being so emotional. Get over it. Somewhere along the way, harshness started to feel productive, even responsible.

But constantly being hard on yourself can quietly wear you down.

Self-criticism often creates more shame, fear, and exhaustion than growth. It can make it harder to rest, harder to try again after setbacks, and harder to feel emotionally safe within yourself. Over time, your inner world can start to feel like a place you’re always bracing against instead of a place you’re supported by.

Gentleness isn’t about giving up or lowering your standards. It’s about changing how you relate to yourself while you grow.

The truth is, people tend to thrive more when they feel supported rather than attacked, and that includes the relationship you have with yourself.

Ways to practice more gentleness with yourself:

•💛 Notice your inner tone: Would you speak to someone you love this way?
•🌱 Replace harshness with honesty: “I’m struggling” is different than “I’m failing.”
•🧠 Understand the function of self-criticism: Often it’s trying to protect you from rejection or mistakes
•🫶 Offer support instead of punishment: Ask “What would help me right now?”
•⏳ Remember that growth takes time: Healing and change are rarely linear

You do not need to bully yourself into becoming better. Care can create change too.

✅ Action step: The next time you catch yourself being self-critical, pause and try replacing it with one supportive sentence instead.

^{Love, Lola Graham}

I love having a fruit protein smoothie to supplement my protein intake and help me get more high-quality nutrients in, but research out of the University of California has (kind of) ruined my favourite flavour mix, blueberry and banana.

Fruits are a great micronutrient-dense food group, and many contain lots of powerful flavonols, which are linked to heart and cognitive health. Researchers found that when you blend a banana into your smoothie with other fruits, an enzyme called polyphenol oxidase, or PPO, which bananas have in high amounts, degrades those beneficial compounds before your body can absorb them.

The practical takeaway is more specific: if you are building a smoothie around berries or cocoa, specifically for their flavanol content, then pair them with mango, pineapple, orange, or yogurt instead of banana to preserve significantly more of those compounds.

However, just because bananas in a berry smoothie lowered flavonol levels, it does not undo the other benefits like the minerals, vitamins and fibre that are in there.

I still have my blueberry and banana smoothies, but switch up the banana or mango sometimes so I can get that extra flavonol boost!

✅ Action Step: Try swapping banana for mango or pineapple in your next berry smoothie to help preserve the flavonols

^{By: Joshua Graham | Source: PMID: 37615673}

^{A reflective journaling prompt to explore learning, self-awareness, and becoming.}

If your future self sent you advice, what might they say right now?

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With love and care,

Lola & Joshua | The Living Well Team

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