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Letting Go of the Pressure to “Fix Everything” on January 1st

January 1st can feel like a finish line and a starting line all at once. Everywhere you turn, there’s pressure to reinvent yourself overnight, set flawless goals, break every “bad habit,” and magically reset your entire life in a single day.


But you are not a machine, and your healing, growth, and energy don’t shift because a calendar page turned. The pressure to “fix everything” on January 1st comes from culture, not your inner wisdom. You don’t need to overhaul yourself. You need space, compassion, and time to grow at a pace that honours your humanity.

This doesn’t mean “don’t set goals,” it means “check in with what you really want and need.” Let’s look at how you can bring gentle care into January and, if you are a big goal person, tune in tomorrow for healing your relationship with goal setting.

A kinder approach to January:

  • 🌙 See January as a soft opening. You’re easing into the year, not launching a brand. Try telling yourself, “I get to start small.”

  • 🌱 Let growth unfold gradually. Sustainable change comes from consistency, not intensity. Choose gentle beginnings.

  • 🔄 Release the idea of immediate transformation. You don’t have to become “your best self” in a week. Loving yourself now supports true change.

  • 🫶 Focus on direction, not perfection. Ask: “What direction feels caring for me?” and take one tiny step toward it.

Action step: Choose one gentle intention for the month instead of a full list of resolutions. Keep it simple: “More kindness,” “More rest,” or “More presence.”

Love, Lola Graham

A Powerful Mood Booster 🌟😁

Research has shown that the westernized style of eating (high-fat, high-sugar) leads to mood dampening and can increase the risk of depression and anxiety.

This style of eating can also increase the impulsive desire to eat these foods, which then turns this into a harmful loop.

Eat a high-fat, high-sugar diet → increased impulsivity to eat → less ability to resist high-fat, high-sugar foods → eat more high-fat, high-sugar foods, etc.

New research by Minke H.C. and colleagues has shown that some of the mood-dampening effects from this type of eating might be able to be alleviated through exercise, including lowering anxiety.

This research was done on rats, not humans, so we shouldn’t take this as gospel. However, when we combine this finding with other research, like a 2024 meta-analysis of over 14,000 participants, which found:

“Exercise is an effective treatment for depression, with walking or jogging, yoga, and strength training more effective than other exercises, particularly when intense…These forms of exercise could be considered alongside psychotherapy and antidepressants as core treatments for depression.”

Exercise can be a powerful way to improve mental well-being and to counteract some of the effects of a westernized diet.

Personally, as someone who has anxiety and has dealt with depression, regular exercise is critical for my mental health. It lowers my stress, anxiety and gives me a lovely mood boost! So I can attest to how helpful it can be.

Action Step: Do a short and honest self-assessment. How have your exercise habits been? Are there any changes or improvements you’d like to make?

By: Joshua Graham

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