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In Today’s Edition:
🥰Well-Being & Self-Care: Why Rest Feels Uncomfortable (Especially If You’re Used to Survival Mode)
💖Longevity & Wellness: 5 Ways to Eat More Vegetables 🥕
✨Daily Affirmation & Daily Prompt
Today’s Edition
You are like a wholesome party 🥳
Fun, awesome and absolutely wonderful!
Why Rest Feels Uncomfortable (Especially If You’re Used to Survival Mode)
Rest sounds simple: slow down, take a break, relax. But for many people, rest doesn’t feel relaxing. It feels uncomfortable. Agitating. Even unsafe. And you never really feel recharged.
If you’ve spent a long time in survival mode (managing stress, staying busy, pushing through) your system can get used to that level of activation. Slowing down can feel unfamiliar, and unfamiliar can feel wrong.
Sometimes, when you finally pause, everything you’ve been holding back starts to surface: thoughts, emotions, tension. So instead of rest feeling like relief, it feels like too much. This doesn’t mean you’re bad at resting. It means your system is adjusting.
It can help to (weirdly) think of rest like a skill, as something we can gently rebuild and practice. Rest seems like it should be natural and easy, but when our nervous systems have been on high alert, we need time to reteach it safety in slowness.
Ways to ease into rest:
•🌿 Start small: Short pauses instead of long stretches
•☺️Take a deep breath: Welcome yourself to the moment
•🧠 Expect discomfort: It doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong
•🤗 Choose “active rest”: Light movement, music, or something soothing
•💛 Pair rest with safety: A cozy space, comforting items, or grounding
•⏱ Set a timer: Give your mind a container for a mindful pause before distracting yourself
Over time, rest can shift from uncomfortable to supportive. But it often starts with meeting yourself where you are.
✅ Action step: Take 2 minutes today to pause, not to “do rest perfectly,” but just to practice stopping.
Love, Lola Graham
5 Ways to Eat More Vegetables 🥕
Most of us know we should be eating more vegetables. The issue is not usually knowledge; it is habit, convenience, and, honestly, sometimes just not knowing how to make them taste good enough to actually want them.
Here are 5 ways that can help:
Add, don't replace. Instead of overhauling your meals, just start adding. Throw a handful of spinach into your scrambled eggs, toss some roasted veggies onto whatever you are already making. Small additions can add up.
Use frozen vegetables. These are just as nutritious as fresh (often more so, since they are frozen at peak ripeness), and they are cheaper, faster, and last way longer.
Make a big batch once a week. Roast a tray of whatever vegetables you have on hand on Sunday. When they are already cooked and sitting in your fridge, you will actually eat them. This one really helps me with lunches, especially.
Blend them into things you already love like smoothies, soups, pasta sauces or curries.
Make them taste good! This sounds obvious, but it matters. Vegetables roasted with olive oil, salt, and garlic taste completely different from those that are steamed to death.
✅ Action Step: Pick one of these five and try it this week!
By: Joshua Graham
Growth & Perspective:
A reflective journaling prompt to explore learning, self-awareness, and becoming.
What truth about your life feels ready to be admitted, even quietly, just to yourself?
Thank you for being here!
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